Tonight I went out for dinner and music with a friend. We ran into a few friends along the way as we enjoyed great Italian food and pieces of "The Messiah" sung by the Lynden Community Choir. As we turned from our seats to leave the church where the choir was singing I looked at the floor by the door and pointed, "LOOK!" There were little white flurries all around the base of the door. Then, I pulled on the handle and low and behold there was....
Another year is coming to an end. The house smells like turkey and stuffing, potatoes and pie. Sparkling cider has been chilling in the block house in the yard and will soon find itself filling little clear plastic cups that we will carry around with us for the rest of the night. The series of football games scheduled for the day play themselves out silently on the muted television in the living room. The phone in my pocket beeps and rings with text messages and loving phone calls from friends with wishes of thanksgiving.
It was raining on Friday. It actually has been raining in Bellingham for the past week. Winter is officially on it's way as the morning gleams it's blue hue at 7:30am and the darkness of night falls at 4:30 in the afternoon. And with these changes in daylight and the drop in temperature comes the rain.
It all began at 6am when the cell phone on my window sill beeped. I reached for it and opened it to discover a text message from my favorite Aunt in the whole entire world - just a little note to say hello and to promise to make her proud. I then went down the hallway to Megan's room where I found her packing up for the day and Cody (her new 9 month old puppy, my new roommate) on the bed. The three of us sat together for a few minutes and then they were out the door. A mug of tea, a face wash, a new pair of jeans and three layers later I headed out the door to meet Emily for out wednesday morning coffee.
You faithful readers of this silly little blog have noticed that I haven't be so good at posting consistently lately. You have also probably noticed the increase in the number of times I mention the INN. Being a part of the IN has probably been the best part of my story that has been developing over the pat six years here in Bellingham. If you would like to know more about the INN and more about what is happening with this amazing place I have the opportunity to be a part of you can use the form below to sign up for the monthly mailings. These monthly newsletters come from Jim, the director, as well as student stories. The mailing list also presents an opportunity to give to the INN. If you do give, understand that you're taking part in God doing something great in the Northwest, as well as around the world as alumni spread over the globe after graduating.
This afternoon we as a staff will be heading down to Cornet Bay at Deception Pass to prepare for the Fall Retreat this weekend. At approximately 7pm tonight students will be showing up in togas with sleeping bags under their arms ready to jump into the weekend. Our theme is "When INN Rome" and it's going to be great. Please pray for us as we get some loose ends together and get ready for the weekend. Until next time - later!
I keep trying to drink more coffee out of a pot or french press than coffee at a cute little shop.
I keep trying to pronounce the name of this smokey-cool tea from Avellino.
I keep trying to be artsy and take cook pictures.
I keep trying to reduce my carbon footprint by walking everywhere.
I keep trying to celebrate fall by making pumpkin things.
I keep trying to make our apartment cute with candles and blankets.
I keep trying to fix my bike on my own and have yet to really let it sink in that I just need a little help.
I keep trying to write a song that will send a message.
I keep trying to make good choices.
I keep trying to hide things that I am ashamed of.
I keep trying to be vulnerable.
I keep trying to post a blog that will tell everyone who cares enough to read this silly thing all the wonderful things I have experienced in the past couple of months working at the INN.
I keep trying to finish the hat Laura started teaching me how to make but have made very little progress in three days.
I keep trying to resist the urge to give in to life's demons.
I keep trying to be perfectly organized.
I keep trying to make the world around me a little better because I'm in it.
The reality is that it feels like I am trying really hard at a lot of things day to day - and it feels like I'm not gaining to much success. But, nevertheless, I suppose it's important that I'm trying. Maybe if I keep trying I'll accomplish something great.
We INNterns have been warned that we will be spending many a night "working" until midnight (if not later). Tonight is the first of those many nights. Sarah, Laura, Stead, and I returned to the office after our respective dinner locations to continue working on elements for programs over the course of the next week. Stead has been solving technology dilemmas and we girls have been gettin' artsy-fartsy with paints creating posters for Red Square Fair, the first Tuesday night of the year, and Fountain Festival (our welcome back activity). Laura made coffee, Sarah and I are taking turns playing DJ, and Stead keeps us going with his side jokes and chuckles.
Last week was the beginning of a great adventure in my life called the Internship at the INN University Ministries here in Bellingham. On day one we were instructed to report to the INN Office to head out on a staff retreat. Stead and I decided to go together, and as we approached the double doors of the office he glanced back at me and said in perfect Stead fashion, "well, there's no turning back now." And he was right. In that brief moment before entering the building it felt like it was our last chance to change our minds. Even if I had wanted to, I don't think I could. There is a powerful pull towards the INN. Something has happened to me there, and that something is not done with me, or the INN, yet.
Santa Cruz is sunny and beautiful. The coffee roasting machine in Coffee Cat hums as it rolls the beans that will soon be ground and brewed into delicious coffee to perk up the brains and bodies that pass through the double glass doors into the quirky Santa Cruz coffee shop. With three shots of espresso and directions on my lap top I am ready to go. This week Matt and Katie are getting married and I am SO excited! As soon as Todd, Mindi, and Carla pull up to the curb in the car I'll jump in and we will be on our way down south to wear pretty black dresses and tuxes, sing songs over a white baby grand piano and choke back the tears as Matt and Katie commit their lives to one another.
The other morning I was sitting at the kitchen counter with my godsons, Tristan and Ethan. In case this is a fact you don't know, they are six year old twin boys who I cherish like none other. Some of my favorite moments with the boys happen in the mornings. Whether I'm being woken up from being tackled on the couch, or sharing toast, or planning the day with them, they make me smile and give my heart a lift on rough days. This morning was nothing special. Mindi (their mom) was getting ready for her last camp board meeting here at Mt. Cross so the boys and I decided to make her a special breakfast of coffee cake. We were mixing ingredients in the bowl when Noah, their two year old brother, walked into the room asking where his mom was. "Mommy has to go to a meeting," I told him. And then it began....
"Why?"
"Because mommy has to tell some people about the summer at Mt. Cross."
"Why?"
"Because not everyone got to be at camp like we did all summer and they want to know if everyone had fun, how many kids came to camp, if the summer staff were good workers, things like that."
"Why?"
"Because mommy is the only one who can tell them things like that and those are the things that help make Mt. Cross important."
"Why?"
"Because your mommy works really hard at running camp."
"Why?"
"Because it's her job."
"Why?"
"Because the people at the meeting trust mommy with that job."
"Why?"
"Because mommy loves Jesus and wants kids to know who He is."
"Why?"
"Because Jesus loves mommy."
"Oh."
Many of us know and joke about the "why" stages we go through in life, especially when we are younger. We want to know how everything works, what's going on behind the big picture, the reasons for something happening the way that it does. Tristan, Ethan, and Noah have somewhat turned it into their own joke and giggle every time they ask why and wait together for an answer. There are times when I feel like I am not able to satisfy their desire for an answer to their "why" questions. Often times it is as if I am trying to use to many words to explain or do not know what to say when they ask me "why". Except for the other morning over coffee cake batter. In the end it all boiled down to the love that their mom has for God and the love He has for her. And even though it seemed to be a simple back and forth rally of talking, I think the "Oh" from all three boys says it all. And I can't help but see that manifesting itself in the lives of my friends and myself. Why is Kyle going to Africa? Because God loves him. Why are Stead, Sarah C., Ty, Laura, and Christine working with me at the INN next year? Because God loves us. Why do many of us who believe in the Gospel do what we do? Because God loves us.
Camp has gone through a pretty weird change in the last 24 hours or so. Our summer at Mt. Cross quazi-officially ended. Most of our summer staff have gone home to family and school, while a few are lingering behind to help with one more week of Day Camp and about 8 of us are meandering around main site helping with the San Jose Youth Symphony's camp program. It is an interesting dynamic when SJYS comes - especially when they arrive less than an hour after you have had your last worship together as a summer staff. Ridiculous transition. The people who come to run the SJYS program are pretty unique, full of character, gifts, and passions for music and developing the skills their kids come to camp with. Last night we invited everyone from SJYS to join us for First Word in the mornings (scripture and prayer to start the day off right). At the same time another one of their counselors said that he had planned a worship service for the morning (it being sunday and all). So, this morning I went - and I was heartbroken.
When I walked into Upper Jensen it was really exciting to see the number of kids who had been willing to get up early for a sunrise worship service. I couldn't see who it was but someone was sitting on the piano, quietly playing the melody to "Wonderful Maker". As we sang my heart was so excited to be singing songs I haven't had a chance to sing in months. Then, we pulled out our Bibles and started reading from the book of Romans. In my mind, Romans is the book of the Bible that's all about grace. The SJYS counselor who spoke did not view it the same. He began reading from the second chapter, telling the kids that God hates us because we are terrible sinners, that our hate for others is okay as long as it is what they deserve, and that our God is a God of wrath and judgement. Harsh. I waited and waited - I waited for 45 minutes as he read random passages that explain God's judgement on us. Law, law, law... I kept waiting for a little bit of Gospel, Gospel, Gospel. And sadly, it never really came. Not once did he consult the 3rd chapter of Romans, where the Bible speaks of our salvation through our faith in Jesus. Not once did he speak of any reconciliation God granted to His people. He told the story of Saul being blinded by God for persecuting His people, but he did not tell the end of Saul's story when God gives him his sight back and gives him a new name (Paul). It was all law - that our God will judge us and hate us because we are miserable, worthless sinners. All I could do was stare at Romans chapter 3 and wait for the healing words of the Gospel to jump from his mouth; but they never came.
Sitting there in the back of the room listening to the message (that I'm sure the speaker thought was wonderful and just what the room needed to hear), I turned to Kat (a girl I worked with this summer) and we both pointed at Romans 3. We both knew in our hearts that the law is incomplete without the Gospel, and the Gospel is incomplete without the law. If I have learned anything when it comes to the "theology" of my faith this summer, it is that both law and Gospel need to be acknowledged for us to truly understand who we are in Christ and what we are called to do with the life we have been given. Over breakfast we continued talking and we came to this conclusion: Without the law accompanying the Gospel, you cannot live. And you cannot live without the Gospel accompanying the law. If we do not know the law we don't know what to do with our salvation! And if we do not claim the salvation of the cross then we have no life to live at all!
Claim the Gospel - live your life well. Peace.
My mind has been a jumble lately. Imagine that each thought in my head is a different colored string. All the strings at one point were wrapped up neatly - I'm sure of it. However, they have somehow tumbled together to make a massive knot of a mess. Green thoughts of growth wrap around orange strings of fear, which tightens around blue strings of hope that refuses to be choked out, yellow strings of encouragement find their way into the mess somehow, excitement finds itself manifesting in a bright, bold pink, and all the while a pure white strand of faith makes it's way into the mess that is my thought-knot. What do I do with this mess? It feels like it has gotten to the point that I am unable to even discern where the end of each strand begins or ends.
Conversation: an informal interchange of thoughts, information, etc., by spoken words; oral communication between persons; talk; colloquy.
Sunday night I was chatting with a friend over the phone about the message he had heard at church that morning. Because of when I have to start my Sundays at camp I can't go to worship anywhere, so he was nice enough to fill me in. As we chatted he shared the worship and message with me. The pastor that morning had talked about prayer and how it is a very, very important element to our faith and our lives that should exist, but for many of us doesn't. I am one of those in the "many of us" category. I guess I just don't think about it much. It often times is hard for me to focus on being still long enough to really pray. And for this I feel guilty.
The end of Week 5 is quickly approaching here at camp and I have yet to truly take the time to write something about the time I have spent here in California. Every day I have heard and seen inspirational, wonderful, noteworthy things from fellow staff members and campers, and every day I tell myself "I should write about that!" And every day I fail. Not on purpose - I really do want to write. But alas, I become overwhelmed with creating s'more packages, finding tarps for slip 'n slides, creating Camp Clue, helping counselors find their bearings with new challenge course elements, setting up high ropes, communicating with the kitchen, and checking in with cabins as they walk by.
To some people in my life I may have fallen off the face of the earth. For others, you know where I am (Santa Cruz, CA) and understand why I have quazi disapeared for the summer. Others may not have even noticed. And if I had more than a few moments right now to tell you of all the wonderful struggles and joys I have experienced in the last six weeks I would. But, time is short as I have the blessing of leading the Mt. Cross summer staff in a staff-refresher this weekend (complete with a trip to Oakland for an A's game - sssshhhhhh, it's a secret!). So, until I have more time, here is a list of a few things I have experienced that I will hopefully get to write more about later:
Amazing resource pastors (i.e. Pastor Pat and Pastor Rhonda)
Night hikes
Way of the Cross
The "Listen Up" theme song
Camper stories and quotes
Encouragement
Camp mail from Washington
Late night ER runs
"Camp Crud" epidemic
Servant hearts
FIRES!
Loss of self
Roomie rotation
Schedules, schedules, schedules!
Humility
Polar Bear Swims
Compassion (and lack-there-of)
Loss
Sand and Surf
Hunger for more
Dares
Homesickness
Friends
I hope to write more details later. But, this is all I have to give at the moment. MISS YOU ALL! Peace.
In case you haven't noticed, it's been a while since I've posted, and it's not because I haven't had anything to write about! The honest truth is that I'm not quite sure how to share the stories of what I am experiencing here in California this summer. Mt. Cross is still a ridiculously wonderful place where I see God moving constantly. I still love my cliffs and sandy shores of Santa Cruz. I would love to write about conversations I've been having with fellow summer staff, the coffee shops and their funky art work, the tide pools I tip-toe around, and the emotions that overwhelmed my heart the other day when I sat on a set of stairs next to a sanctuary where a worship team was preparing for the morning as the new light of the day began to shine down through the windows of the church. I still cherish campfires and precious moments when the lights click on in the mind of a camper (or staff member!). And I know those conversations will be shared, and stories will be told. But for this moment, I have no conversations or stories. I have an announcement....
"You just have to give up control - you don't have it anymore, I do."
Once again, I find myself a weary traveler waiting for my flight to board in one of the many airports scattered along the west coast. My sunburn is itchy beneath my t-shirt as my messenger bag strap constantly reminds me of the mistake concerning lack of sunscreen I made yesterday. My guitar rests next to me, glad to be out of the dark, cold hole it travels in beneath the plane. Other people hustle and stumble about the terminal with their luggage, children, or significant other in tow hoping they know where they’re going and that they will reach their flights on time. And here I sit – waiting.
I feel as if I am waiting for more than just my turn to board the jet heading north for my home. I feel like my heart is waiting for a more monumental moment. It is waiting for the moment when I can release the entanglement of emotions that have been building up and wrestling one another for weeks. Emotions of change, loss, gain, questions, answers, hope, joy, fear, anxiety – they’re all there, sharing one space, fighting for their chance to surface and take over my state of mind completely.
This probably sounds ridiculous, but I feel like my heart has been in a state of constant brokenness and constant healing at the same time. It seems as if every time a crack is created He (I guess you could say “He” being God) comes and mends the crack. I think it is because of this feeling I just want to cry. I want to cry tears of joy and sorrow, tears of hope and fear, tears of redemption and tears of guilt. And in each emotion, in each state, in each reflection of what has been, what is, and the vision of what will be, I just have a desire to fall into someone’s arms and cry (and what makes this funny and odd to me is the fact that I am not a crier – or at least I wasn’t until this last year).
Anyway, these are my thoughts. Thanks for letting me share. Until next time - peace.
I should be done packing my bags for Cali.
The air is calm and still over Lake Whatcom as the beginning sailing class arrives for the day. No wind means it's time for games! Everyone gathers at the boathouse waiting to hear the words "bucket ball" escape the lips of our instructors. Instead, we hear that we are going to be part of a relay. We rig the boats, split up into pairs, and begin the tasks of running across four boats tied together, spinning with our foreheads pressed against a rudder, and then jump into our rigged boats, out of breath and dizzy only to attempt to bring the boat around a buoy and to make wind by rocking the boat back and forth. On the last leg it happens - someone slips. She looses her footing and slides off the boat into the cold lake. Besides the shock of the water, loss of her glasses, and a small bump to her head she is fine, but cold. One of the instructors turns to us and asks if anyone has anything dry for her to wear. I remember the laundry in the trunk of my car and begin to run up the hill to grab the warmest articles of clothing I can find.
Usually when we wakes up in the morning we are able to discern what kind of day it is going to be. Before it even begins to unfold we have the chance to look out the window and tell ourselves if it is going to be a good day, a bad day, or just a day. We have the opportunity to take hold of our day and claim it. Unfortunatly, we are at times given a greater challenge in claiming our days. Today is one of those days....
I love youth ministry. This weekend I was able to go with my friend Kyle out to a camp in Auburn where we spent our time as "Burt and D" (an old, old retired couple from the south), playing medallion challenges, worshiping, chatting with kids about Jesus, and taking in moments of stillness and rest (something we both simply don't do often enough). It was great! I'll give you a brief overview:
This morning I left Bellingham ridiculously early so I could get to Chesire, Oregon to see one of my favorite families, the Wagners. After Sabbath at the INN and a good talk with a favorite friend I packed my back pack, grabbed my sleeping bag, tossed my tennis shoes in the trunk, snagged some fruit for a road trip snack, and headed out. As I drove down I-5 music blared a bit louder than normal from my speakers, snow fell from the sky (random, it's April in Washington!), and I embraced the fading of the night as it turned into a beautiful, blue early morning. Then, tragic event number one occured....
Post-Its. Little pieces of paper with a light, temporary adhesive attached as a strip to the back of the paper. Usually they are used to write brief messages or reminders. They stick to pretty much anything. Desks. Walls. Boxes. Telephones. The inside of your friend's car.
Wednesday night a couple friends and I filled the interior of our friend Kyle's car with 3600 post-its and balloons. There we were, covered in the darkness of the night, laughing and talking about how amazing it was going to be to fill the car with post-it notes. We wrote messages on some, but most were just stuck all over the place. By the time we were through, you couldn't see the floor, the seats, the dash, or out of the vehicle. It was like sitting inside a giant pile of papers. The street light shone through the post-its on the windows and shone through in mosaic-like patterns. SO COOL.
I love that. I love that I have friends who are willing to do ridiculous things with me. I love that I have friends who let me into their lives and who are willing to come into mine. Friends and post-its... With those two things, life will always be great.
Friends are good. Friends are what make us remember that good things exist in this world. Friends remind us that we are worthy of life. They give us hope to move on when we struggle and they give us someone to celebrate with when good things happen.
My best friend Kirsten was in town for the week and it was AWESOME. She, her husband Brian, and their baby girl Hallie (who just turned 1!) all traveled back to Washington from Albuquerque, NM to visit family and friends. We spent random moments of the week sitting in her parents' living room talking, dancing with Hallie, strolling in the sunshine, joking around, laughing, and reconnecting. Since Kirsten moved not a day has gone by when I don't think about her and the little Tyhuis-trio she has become since marrying Brian a couple years ago - but I think I do sometimes forget how much I really do miss her.
BBQ has been a theme of my spring so far, especially this week as I was blessed with grilling burgers at Boulevard Park twice. Both meals were shared with friends, accompanied with laughter, sunshine, sail boats on the bay, and fun pictures.
This weekend we celebrated Mission Trips at the INN. Saturday night FPC was filled with parents, friends, members of FPC, roommates, INN Alumni, and Spring Break Mission Trip Teams. Everyone gathered together to see, share, and celebrate the work that was done and the community that was created and strengthened over the course of the trips. All those faces, all those relationships, all those connections, all those worlds colliding - it was really fun to watch.
The weekend ends and the week begins with today. Mike, Megan, and I played cards and chatted at the Lettered Streets Coffee House. I hugged and said goodbye to Kirsten, Brian, and Hallie. Mindi and I talked on the phone while I was driving home. I did homework and chatted at the living room table with Seth. And as I lay here in bed, listening to "Blackbird" I am reminiscing over memories that have been created; each memory is special in it's own unique way because of the people who created them.
Dang - there are some good people in my life. :o) How did I get to be so lucky?
Today it was reaffirmed to me how much I love the simple pleasures of life, and how acknowledging those simple pleasures is good for the soul. It happened on the way to English....
There I was, walking across red square to the Miller Market to grab an afternoon coffee. This afternoon coffee is pretty important to me. It may be the only reason I can stay awake in the warm classroom long enough to hear the interesting information being tossed about between the English majors who surround me. So, there I am, standing before the baristas in the Miller Market, and they ask me for my order. Looking up and smiling at them I order my usual - an iced, double tall, non-fat, caramel macciato. I paid for my coffee and waited patiently, knowing that there is a pretty good chance my macciato will be stirred (side note - one of the things I love about the macciato is that it is a 'stir it yourself' beverage - the shots of espresso linger over the milk and you get to stir the espresso into the milk, causing it to swirl together into yummy coffee goodness). The barista finished my drink, called out the name, and placed it on the bar. And there it stood - an UNSTIRRED caramel macciato.
I know this is silly, but my heart skipped a happy beat when I saw the layers in my iced coffee cup. It just made me happy!
So, the moral of this wednesday afternoon story: acknowledge the simple things, because they will make you smile.
A couple weeks ago it was spring break for us WWU students and I was one of many students of the INN who went on a mission trip for the week. My location of choice: Vancouver, B.C. 32 of us piled into two 15 passenger and two mini vans and drove the hour-and-a-half-or-so north, crossed the border (after having our criminal records checked by the Canadian border patrol), and settled as guests to the green carpet classroom floors of Glad Tidings Church. Over the course of the week we spent a lot of time on E. Hastings (one of the main streets that basically is the hub of homelessness, drugs, prostitution, and violence in Vancouver) and worked with four different organizations and met lots of unique, interesting people from all over the world and all walks of life. I'll give you a play by play:
SUNDAY: We went to worship with the members of Glad Tidings. This church is HUGE! Some members of the congregation did a passion play of Jesus' sacrifice on the cross. It was different to see the Crucifixion on Easter and not the empty tomb. However, when the worship team, adult choir, kids choir, and blue-haired children's choir director stood up on the stage and started to praise, sing, jump, dance, and bust-a-move in the aisles, I was pretty convinced they all remembered the new life in Christ we celebrate on Easter.
After church we explored V-Town as much as possible. Mostly everything was closed, which made it extremely difficult to find coffee that was Canadian and not Starbucks, but it was still great. We walked for a while, drove a lot, avoided puddles at the bottom of a slide in Stanley Park, watched an amazing sunset over the ocean, gazed upon the Canadian mountain range (which is almost as pretty as our's in Washington), and got tangled in the mess of one-ways and funky intersections.
MONDAY: Canadians do something kinda cool on the Monday following Easter - they take yet another day of holiday. Nothing is open, kids don't have school, people really just hang out with family and friends and sleep off their Easter bunny sugar highs. So, because none of the organizations we were working with throughout the week were "open", we chose to do random acts of kindness for the day. A few of us went to one of the Salvation Army houses and served a couple special Easter meals while the rest of us stayed behind at the church. There we made lots of peanut butter sandwiches and brewed coffee a local roaster donated to us, and colored signs that read "There is Hope in the World" and "Free High 5's". Then we walked down town and loved on people - IT WAS GREAT!
TUESDAY: Our first day of "real work". We drove south for a while and went to A ROCHA, this really cool Christian conservation site where they grow food seasonally and live in community. At the site there were these really fuzzy looking cows that kind of wounded like Andrew when he wakes up in the morning (this made me giggle for a good 10 minutes or so), and lots of chickens and lots of love that goes into each task throughout the day. All the people who live at the A ROCHA site are there because they feel the calling both spiritually, personally, and theologically to live simply in sustainability. It was such an inspiring place. Another thing we noticed about being at A ROCHA was the fact that we could SEE the results of our work at the end of the day, which was not necessarily true for the other tasks we took on as we hopped around Vancouver.
WEDNESDAY: First thing in the morning Andrew, Lindsay, Jesse, Dave Wheeler, and myself went to one of the Salvation Army shelters to lead chapel. Andrew gave a message on meekness (check out the Beatitudes in Matthew 5) and Dave and I led music together. When we opened the floor up for prayer requests, one of the gentlemen who was going through the process of becoming independent and healthy again raised his hand and began to pray. He prayed for the staff of the shelter, for his friends who were brave enough to enter the front doors of the Salvation Army and those who were still wandering from one street corner to the next. He prayed for himself and his recovery process. He prayed for thanksgiving for Jesus. He prayed for us. It was inspiring.
We also spent our first day out at Urban promise on Wednesday. We did a brief training in the morning, walked around the neighborhood taking in the type of environment the kids we would be working with were coming from, and then split off into teams to meet the kids. There are four Urban Promise camps in Vancouver: Camp Joy, Camp Hope, Camp Grace, and Camp Peace. All the camps are hosted by churches and the kids who come to them are from all over the world. Some are foster children, others are from single-parent or low-income homes, others are refuges from Sudan. And they were amazing. Our first encounter with the kids at Camp Joy was on the playground where we played tag and climbed jungle gyms. As we were leaving for the day Corbin looked at me and said "don't you just feel better?" And I did. I needed to be with kids. I think we all needed to be with kids.
THURSDAY: The day started off with a little bit of servant projects at Glad Tidings. We hauled a lot of junk, cleaned out a lot of man-made nests where people were living underneath the church's foundation and in the parking garage, loaded a trailer, and played in snow. It was freezing and our hearts were broken by what we were finding in the nests underneath the church (needles, porn, the smell of booze and urine), but we were in high spirits. We embraced the snow and the work, joking and singing snow songs, ".... walking in a winter wonderland...."
That afternoon it was back to our Urban Promise sites. The kids were once again wonderful and rejuvenating for us. It was in those moments of playing and doing homework with the kids that I think we began to realize why the kids were so good for us. Those kids WERE AND ARE HOPE. They have potential to be greater than the worlds and lives they have been born into. They are smart, funny, unique, charismatic, and good.
Thursday evening was a very special night for me and four others on my team. We had the opportunity to walk the streets of Vancouver with a ministry called Agape. Before we left for the streets we loaded backpacks with candy, gloves, and socks. We did this task in a room with walls covered in pictures of women, each with a name and a birthday on it - there was not one empty spot on the walls. In red coats with backpacks slung over our shoulders, we walked with the people of Agape walk down the streets of Vancouver passing out baggies of candy to prostitutes and praying for and with them as they walk. My heart was overwhelmed as I saw women selling themselves on the corners, stumbling around high on drugs and booze, all the while running towards the red coats yelling, "Hey, candy people! Candy people! Can I have some candy tonight! Do you have a rosary? I lost mine, could you pray for my sons? Could you pray that I'll get the job I interviewed for today so I don't have to pull tricks anymore?" If I could write about each woman we met, I would. If I could tell you about all the faces of brokenness I glanced upon and the eyes I looked into that night, I would. But the truth is I cannot. There are to many; each one unique, special, and BEAUTIFUL. One woman we met asked if she could sing for us, and she sang an old native prayer song for us. Another cried to Gretchen and I, telling us she was afraid and confused. Some of the women were so gentle and gracious, timid and meek. The street corner is no place for them. But, that is where they are, and that is where we went to meet them.
FRIDAY: Our last official day of the trip. We woke up and headed to Urban Promise sites for early release programs and office work. Some of us played games with kids while others painted posters, made lesson plans, planned arts and crafts, and soaked up encouragement from the Urban Promise interns. Later that evening we went to a restaurant on E. Hastings where we shared a final meal together, took Photography 101 from Fred, ate ridiculously hot peppers (OK, maybe that was only Corbin and Joel), drank special iced coffee, and just existed together. The day ended with a 7-Eleven run for Canadian Slurpees and a beautiful rendition of "Hey Jude" on the street corner.
SATURDAY: We woke up, we packed up, we cleaned the church, loaded in the vans, and headed to the border. By 1 o'clock we were back in Bellingham, tired and unsure of what to do with all we had seen and all that we had been blessed to be a part of.
So much more happened over the time we spent in Vancouver. I wish I could tell you about playing cards with a precious little girl at Camp Joy, about the conversation I had with Nicole as we gave her candy with Agape, about the poems a man named Andreas recited for us as he told us about the years he spent living on the corner of E. Hastings, and about climbing a ridiculous playground structure after school with the kids. I wish I could tell you about the looks on the pre-schooler's faces when they saw Megan and I prancing in the snow, about Jacob and I solemnly realizing what happened in the Salvation Army detox-center we were cleaning out, about the homemade chai tea we drank at A ROCHA, about finding random local Vancouver coffee houses, fun shaped pancakes and evening worship together. I wish I could tell you about the conversations I had with my teammates, about listening to the boys make beautiful music with the guitar and piano. And more than anything, I wish I could express to you what it was like to watch our walls come crashing down to reveal a world not of judgement, fear, and darkness, but a world of hope, acceptance, and love.
On tuesday night Jim talked about what it might look like for the Kingdom of God to come. It's coming. I saw it in Vancouver.
Pretty much everyone has returned to beautiful Bellingham post-spring break. The next few days will be spent reflecting, reconnecting, sharing pictures and stories, cherishing the weeks that were and the future that is together over coffee, walks, long boarding, sitting in the sun shine (if it doesn't keep snowing!), and cuddling on couches. Photos will be uploaded on facebook and people will be tagged. Music mixes that spark memories of singing and dancing will be created and swapped. Special dinners will be made and shared as roommates once again join together to live in tiny communities that can be found in houses and little apartments. Schedules and planners will be updated, text books will be bought, and the excitement (or dread) of the first day of school is approaching. Some will register for commencement while others will draw one quarter closer.
Break is over. Spring has begun. Life is ahead. The events of the last week are beginning to come together in my mind. The past week feels almost impossible to make tangible into words. But, hopefully that will be changed. More on the trip to Vancouver, B.C. to come. Until then, talk to you later, eh.
A couple weeks ago my buddy Seth had a great idea - let's pre-funk spring break! So, the two of us went a couple hours south for a few days to see friends, wander around our beloved Seattle, and just hang out together before we jumped into the adventures spring break has given us both. Aside from being together, Seth got to see his brother and I got to spend some quality time with a couple of my friends who I cherish immensely. Now Seth is off to Boston with the Industrial Design crew from WWU, checkin' out firms and schools, exploring a new city in a new place on a new coast line. I am heading north to Vancouver B.C. with the INN for a mission trip full of meeting new people and learning more about what it means to love and serve.
It was a great three days in Seattle with my friend. We wandered, sipped coffee, took in the usual Seattle sites (like Pike Place Market and such), had really great chats and just had fun. Both of us kept mentioning how great it was to just exist for a couple of days - to just be with friends taking the hours as they came to be just as they were. So good - cannot even begin to describe. And there are so many random little thoughts scribbled in the pages of my journal - I hope that I can find the time to take them and write something tangible for you to read. But for now, all I have is this brief remembrance of a great past three days before I curl up in my bed to sleep...
Please pray for our trips! Pray that Seth is safe and has a great time exploring a new place, that his conversations are blessed and the time he gets to spend in Boston is just fantabulous! And please pray for our trip to Vancouver B.C., that we will be a blessing and that we will be blessed as well. Oh, and one more thing - pray for the other INN trips to Haysville, NC, Memphis, TN, and Jamaica, and for those in Bellingham who will also be serving their hearts out. It's time for a week of new adventures - WOO HOO!!!!!
Today was, once again, full of goodness.
Finishing finals = goodness.
Selling back text books and only getting $2 = enough goodness for a coffee.
Said coffee = goodness.
An understanding roommate = goodness.
A walk through a bookstore = goodness.
A new camera = goodness.
Finding out everything is going to be fine = goodness / praise the Lord!
Praying with a friend = goodness.
Communion during worship = blessed goodness.
Carrying a butt-load of donated clothes from one place to the next = goodness.
A hug = goodness.
Cheese sticks and strawberry lemonade, surrounded by friends = goodness.
Cuddling in my sleeping bag = goodness.
Gosh life is good. Note to self: remember that more often.
My friend Jeremy recently wrote a blog about reclaiming joy. He pointed out that so often we let the hard moments in life take over; we let them overwhelm us until we feel like we have nothing left to give and no where to go. Jeremy challenged me to step back and see the joy that I forget. This reminded me of last thanksgiving when my friend Karen gave me a little notebook entitled, "Gratitude". It is supposed to be my thankful notebook; a place for me to write down what I am most thankful for at the end of each day. Somehow I lost consistency in my little thankfulness-reflection-routine. So now, in this moment between being awake and falling asleep, I would like to acknowledge some of my joys of today (in no particular order).....
1) Coffee
2) Jesus moments during worship
3) Late night walk with a friend
4) Cuddling in blankets with roomies on the couch, munching on popcorn, and taking in our latest NetFlix selection.
5) Good music
6) Anticipation of what is to come
7) Good hugs
8) Chatting with my favorite Bellingham family.....
It's been a good day. Full of joy and homework, gray, rainy skies and coffee. I just got home from a walk with one of my most favorite people in the world, and now sleep awaits. New goal: remember to acknowledge the joy.
This morning I arrived at school discouraged (which is silly because I was so happy yesterday!). I had no desire to leave the sunshine outside to sit in a concrete building. I had no desire to focus on anything. I just wanted to sit outside and let the apathy that had seeped into my heart as I woke up melt away slowly. Little did I know I would find so much encouragement while I was inside the basement of Miller Hall.
I am in the computer lab inbetween classes, minding my own business working on a project and all of a sudden I am flooded with encouragement. My dad sent me a really affirming e-mail, which God love him, he doesn't do often, my friend Kyle texted me about playing frisbee golf, my favorite Regena Spektor song came on over my iPod, a walk with a friend has been planned for tomorrow afternoon, my friend Laura is letting me borrow her pen (because I once again forgot to bring one to class), and now my favorite 'God moment' song is flowing through my headphones. Suddenly my heart is lighter, my attitude has changed, and I am ready to face the world of winter quarter academics. All this in the last half-hour.
Earlier this week at SHOP (a student leader encouragement/accountability/check-in time thingy at the INN) we talked about apathy and inspiration. My current state finds me coming out of a long couple weeks of apathy, and this morning I found nothing but frustration in myself because I was slipping back into that un-motivated, depressed state (which frustrates me mostly because I cannot find a specific reason good enough to be sad over). But now, all in just a few moments of time, I have been released back into the state of a light heart ready for action. In the words of my friend Seth Tucker "God is moving in me and changing me, and I can see it". Sometimes God moves like crashing ocean waves in our hearts and lives, shaking us into the reality of grace and redemption. Other times He moves like a gentle breeze, subtle but undeniably present. I like that He moves both ways - and I like that I can notice both.
Oh this feeling right now is so good. I like it. Hope you get to feel this way, too.
My friend Kyle loves to share encouraging stories. He will seek you out for days if he can't find you to tell you about how he has seen and heard God moving. This week he shared a story with me - a story I needed to hear. Just thought I'd share a little of Kyle's God-Gossip with you....
*Wednesday night our friend's Brittany, Brandon, and Brie's mom was in town to visit for a couple days this week. She was looking out the window at Brandon's condo when she noticed a group of three people, a boy in a red coat, a girl in a white coat, and a girl in a blue hoodie, standing underneath the overpass bridge holding hands and praying. She suddenly felt overwhelmed with the desire to be with those people. She described it as this overwhelming sense that the Spirit was with her, urging her to pray with them. So, for the next half hour that is what she did - she prayed with the trio under the bridge. She did not know who they were or if they had a purpose for being under the bridge, but she prayed with them nevertheless. Then the tears came - tears for someone she did not know. And then a name came to her mind: Sarah. Not knowing for sure what Sarah needed she began praying for this girl. As her prayers began to come to an end she looked at the group and prayed for them to end in a hug. The next thing she knew, the trio was linked together through arms wrapped around each other.
Later that night she shared the events of her moving prayerful experience with her daughter and one of her roommates. The roommate was astonished - she was the girl in the white coat. The boy in the red coat was Kyle. And the girl in the blue hoodie was Sarah (me). Brittany's mom had never met any of us before. She did not know that we were passing out hot chocolate and talking with those who are often neglected or forgotten. She did not know that I broke down crying and that I needed something I could not put into words. All she knew was that she heard the calling to pray - and she did.
How cool is that? Kyle came and told me this story and I was floored. My name had been spoken to a woman I had never been blessed to meet. God is moving. God is moving quickly and loudly. And at a point in my life where, for some reason unknown to me, God is showing Himself. And still I sit here - wondering if He's coming to rescue my heart.
HE ALREADY HAS! HE DID A LONG TIME AGO! It feels like I am riding away in the arms of my rescuer and all I can do is look back at where I was and wonder how long I was there and if the feelings that came from that place will ever go away. I am so focused on what was that I am neglecting to feel the protection of my Savior as He holds me.
Look for the crashing movement of God in your life. He is there - if we choose to acknowledge it or not. He is there, and He is moving, and He is strong, and He is good.
Well, it's Valentine's Day. Full of candy hearts and date nights and single, heart-broken people who don't know what to do with themselves as the rest of the world celebrates love.
Here's the deal. Love is something that exists every day. Love is something we should acknowledge every day. Love doesn't come around just one day a year. Love is greater than that! If we limit love to February 14th, if we decide that this is the special day of the year when we tell someone that we love them, then we are fools.
Every day is a day to love. Every day is a day to look someone you care about in the eye and tell them that they are worthy of attention, kindness, acceptance, and friendship. Love every day.
My head is full. My head is so full I don't even know how to begin emptying it. I am afraid that if I tip over the bucket of thoughts the mess will be to big to clean up. So, here I sit. Awake. Tired. Wanting to sleep. But alas, nothing comes from the craziness that is my mind.
Life.
Love.
School.
Relationships.
Family.
Adventures.
God.
Salvation.
Redemption.
Reconciliation.
Confession.
Hope.
What ifs.
My room.
My hobbies.
Music.
Journaling.
Quotes.
Birthday pie.
Unfinished business.
Just a little list of the mental jumble. Maybe putting the list out for the world to see will make it a little better. Guess we'll just have to wait and see.
Sorry this blog is ridiculously lame.
I was reading an article for one of my classes this morning when I ran across this quote from Pascal:
"All the miseries of mankind come from one thing, not knowing how to remain alone." -Pascal
How true is that? The times when we are most depressed, most in pain, when our hearts are the most broken, is when we are alone. The vast majority of us (I'd say approximately 99.999%) cannot handle being alone. Big news, yea? Well guess what; we are not supposed to know how to be alone. We have been created to be in community with one another.
Think about it. God did not create Adam and say, "Hey, you sure do look good and happy all by your lonesome." God did not tell Noah to get on the ark with the animals all by himself. Moses had Aaron to go with him to talk to Pharaoh about letting his people go. Ruth didn't let Naomi wander alone. Jesus wandered the land with a clump of 12 of his best friends. God doesn't even want to be alone - He created us (and on top of that He is the Trinity, the Three in One)! We were not created to be alone. We were created for kinship, for family and friends.
I do think Pascal is one the right track, though. Being alone is not a fun thing to be. One thing I think gets us into this little lonely dilemmas is the fact that we do not see God as our friend who sits beside us. Does that sentence make sense? Many of us trust and know that God is there, that He hears us and sees us, that He lays us on the hearts of others when we need to be remembered and provided for. But many of us don't connect to God the way He desires us to - or the way we desire to connect with Him. God longs for our hearts to be connected to His, just as our hearts connect with our best friends. We long to have that connection, that strong, unchanging, unconditional connection that provides comfort and love, strength and support. How do we get there? I have no idea. Maybe the same way we connect with our neighbor; by taking the time to be together.
The miseries of mankind come from us not knowing how to be by ourselves. Duh.
So, currently I am processing life, processing roommates, processing school, processing summer decisions that need to be made (which is silly because I think I have it figured out), processing elements of my heart, just processing processing, processing left and right, up and down.
Here is the thing about me processing. I enter emotional hibernation mode. I am not mad or frustrated, sad or upset. I am simply processing. When my expression is blank and my gaze is off in the distance, it does not mean that I need consoling or tips on how to relieve stress. I just need to process. You can't read me like a book, you can't analyze my expression or the words that come out of my mouth. It's just a time to let the thoughts that have been kicked up in the creek that runs through my mind to settle so the waters can be clear again. I just need that time - that moment or two (maybe even three).
So for those of you who care, it's just a process. Don't worry. In a few moments I'll return back to normal. Promise.
Oh my. I am tired. I am tired of running around. I am tired of not knowing what to do with myself. I am tired of not feeling comfortable in my own skin. I am tired of not knowing what I want. I am tired of feeling like I don't meet expectations. I am tired of not being able to sleep at night.
I am tired. Perhaps a nap is in order.
My friend Kyle has begun to open my eyes to a part of my beautiful Bellingham that is no so beautiful. It is apart of my wonderful little Bellingham that is not so wonderful. It is a part of my Bellingham that is easily ignored, but desperatly needs to be acknowledged. It is a tiny little world in Bellingham that can be discovered on the streets.
It is on the streets I walk down every day sipping my $3 coffee and wearing my $40 rain jacket. On the streets where I wave at friends I see across the sidewalks. The beautiful streets that in the spring and summer are covered with beautiful chalk art, skirts, and adorable Bellingham families wandering around downtown after visiting the farmer's market. On the cute little street corner where people cram into the Little Cheerful cafe to order breakfast and sip cups of coffee and tea. It is on these streets where so many dreamy sunny and rainy day memories are made that I see pain, desitute, heartache, struggle, fear, rejection, sadness, and brokenness. On these same, precious streets I see eyes filled with anger and empty unknown. On the same streets where my friends and I gather from our little homes to play and wander together, I see those who hope every night that they might be able to find a temporary home for the night.
My friend Kyle and I, along with Megan, Zach, Stead, Andrew, Kim, Mike, and a few other people have been going down to the corner of Railroad and Holly street to love on those who are told they are not worthy of love. We take hot chocolate to the corner with us and share a "cup of love" with a group of friends who changes from week to week. Sometimes it's us just hangin' out, people walking by us. Other times we are embrassed by a small group and share cup after cup of hot chocolate and listen to life stories.
Where there is despair on the street corner there is hope. Where there is sadness and struggle underneath the bridges there is acceptance. On the streets of Bellingham worlds collide. This collision is not always comfortable, nor is it always safe. But, amongst the rubble of crashing thoughts, lives, histories, and futures, there is kinship and love.
Oh, the streets of Bellingham.